Should kids earn screen time with chores?

Should kids earn screen time with chores? What the reward and screen time research says, how to set up a screen time reward chart, and the traps to avoid.

Part of Rewards and charts. Updated .

The short answer

Earning screen time with chores can get jobs done, because it is a reward children actually care about. The risks are that screens become the only currency and every evening becomes a negotiation. Set a daily ceiling first, let chores earn a fixed top-up inside it, cash it in at set times, and keep praising the job itself.

In plenty of houses, screen time is the only currency that still clears. Pocket money is abstract, stickers are for babies, and the tablet is right there on the sofa. So should kids earn screen time with chores, and how do you stop it turning into a trade negotiation every evening?

This is one of our guides to rewards, charts and what the research says about them. The short answer is yes, with a ceiling.

Does earning screen time work?

For getting jobs done, often. Children want it, and wanting is the whole engine of a reward. A meta-analysis of 183 studies and more than 212,000 people, across school, work and sport, found incentives were the better predictor of how much people did. Their own motivation better predicted how well. Every study we cite is listed on the home page, with its limits.

The cost turns up elsewhere. A meta-analysis of 128 experiments found that rewards people expected, for doing or finishing a task, reduced how much they chose to do it afterwards, and tangible rewards tended to be more detrimental for children than for university students. Positive feedback increased interest. We know of no reason screen time would be the exception.

Two details from the full paper soften that. The undermining showed up with tasks people already enjoyed, not boring ones, and hoovering the stairs is rarely anybody's passion. And rewards given as a surprise, after the job, made no measurable difference.

The risk: screens get even more valuable

A Canadian study of 62 children aged 18 months to five years asked parents whether they offered screen time as a reward for good behaviour, or took it away as a punishment. Where mothers did more of this, children had more screen time on weekdays. Where either parent did, they had more at weekends.

It is small, it is a snapshot rather than a trial, and the children were very young. The authors point out it may run the other way: parents may pick screens as the reward because their child already loves them. Treat it as a warning sign, not a finding about your eight year old.

The worry holds up without a study. Make one thing the prize for everything and you have told your child it is the most valuable thing in the house.

What the evidence says about screen time itself

A 2019 systematic review in BMJ Open pulled together 13 earlier reviews. It found moderately strong evidence linking more screen time with obesity and more depressive symptoms, and moderate evidence linking it with a less healthy diet and poorer quality of life. Evidence for most other outcomes, sleep included, was weak or missing. It also found weak evidence that small amounts of daily use are not harmful and may have some benefits.

These are associations. They cannot tell you whether screens cause the harm or whether children who are already struggling use more screens. The same review found the evidence for any safe threshold weak. A separate analysis of three large datasets, covering 355,358 teenagers, found the link between digital technology use and well-being was negative but small, explaining at most 0.4% of the variation.

So there is no evidence-based number of minutes to aim for. Set your ceiling on your own terms first. Then decide how much of it chores can earn.

How to set it up without a nightly negotiation

That rate card is your screen time reward chart: jobs, minutes, daily maximum, cash-in times. Nothing else needs to be on it, and the less it asks of you each evening, the longer it lasts. Reward charts that need an adult every night tend to fade.

When screen time becomes the only currency

Watch for the signs. Every request answered with “how many minutes?”. Jobs done only when the battery is low. Screen time the only thing you ever give and the only thing you ever take away. At that point the system is running you.

Where Boomph fits

Boomph is the app we make, so weigh this accordingly. You photograph the mess and it comes back as one small mission at a time, with a timer your child can see and instant boosts during the job. The reward is whatever you type in, such as 30 minutes of a game, and you mark it handed over once they have had it. Boomph does not control screens and does not hold or move money. Boomph itself has not been trialled, and a kitchen timer and a written rate card will do most of what is above.

Questions parents ask

Should kids earn screen time with chores?

It can work if the deal is fixed in advance. Screen time is a reward children care about, so jobs tend to get done. Decide the daily ceiling first, let jobs earn time inside it, and keep the family basics out of the deal so that not everything in the house has a price.

How do I make a screen time reward chart?

List the jobs that earn time, what each is worth and the most that can be earned in a day. Add when time can be spent, such as after tea and never at bedtime. Keep it to five or six jobs, tick them on the day, and say thank you when the job is done, not just when the minutes are spent.

What is the best app for kids to earn screen time?

There are two halves to the job. The phone or console's own parental controls enforce the limit. A chore app or a paper chart records that the job was done. Any combination works; the rules you set matter more than the app. We make Boomph, a chore app where the reward can be screen time, so weigh that accordingly.

How much screen time should a child earn for chores?

Less than you might think, and never more than your daily ceiling. A fixed rate, such as ten minutes of screen for a ten minute job, is easy to remember. Research gives you no safe number: a 2019 review of reviews found the evidence for screen time thresholds weak, so set the ceiling on your own terms first.

Sources

  1. Cerasoli, C. P., Nicklin, J. M., & Ford, M. T. (2014). Intrinsic motivation and extrinsic incentives jointly predict performance: a 40-year meta-analysis. Psychological Bulletin, 140(4), 980–1008. Link
  2. Deci, E. L., Koestner, R., & Ryan, R. M. (1999). A meta-analytic review of experiments examining the effects of extrinsic rewards on intrinsic motivation. Psychological Bulletin, 125(6), 627–668. Link
  3. Tang, L., Darlington, G., Ma, D. W. L., & Haines, J. (2018). Mothers' and fathers' media parenting practices associated with young children's screen-time: a cross-sectional study. BMC Obesity, 5, 37. 62 children aged 1.5 to 5, Canada. Link
  4. Stiglic, N., & Viner, R. M. (2019). Effects of screentime on the health and well-being of children and adolescents: a systematic review of reviews. BMJ Open, 9(1), e023191. Link
  5. Orben, A., & Przybylski, A. K. (2019). The association between adolescent well-being and digital technology use. Nature Human Behaviour, 3(2), 173–182. Three datasets, n = 355,358. Link

We list what we cite and, where the evidence is thin, we say so. See the research behind Boomph.

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